Its really flattering that you know that despite the fact that you already have a boyfriend, some guys still find you attractive.  Its quite annoying sometimes because you already told that person that you can only be friends, but still he treats you like he heard absolutely nothing.  For crying out loud, the guy even has a girlfriend. Shame on him. Bigtime. 

I'm not the type of girl who would cheat on my boyfriend. Absolutely not.  I still believe that you "Get what you give."  Another thing is that I'm very much happy and contented with what I have, so why would I destroy something so precious to me.  We wouldn't last 5 years if I wasn't happy.  With him, I can still be who I am and he can still be who he is.  We are a couple but we are still individuals.  I don't think you would call it a healthy relationship if you can't be yourself because the other one prevents you from doing so.

I thought at first I was just being paranoid.  But the people around me already notice.  So ask me out for coffee? You asked me lots of times already and the answer is NO.  You asked me again today.  The answer is NO and will always be NO.